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Baby Abandoned in Airport Rubbish Bin, Sexist Responses Already Underway

March 20th, 2009 by Madeleine

Imagine if someone uttered the following statement “Women are irrational creatures. Due to their propensity to be emotional, they are not responsible for their actions.” I suspect people would think I was quoting from a popular elizabethan or medieval discussion of women and most would write this statement off as sexist, misogynist and old fashioned.

Well, I suggest you check out the news because such views are apparently alive and well in New Zealand. To see my point let me put down two not-so-hypothetical cases.

A man abandoned his three year old daughter in an Australian train station, he clearly was distressed yet immediately there was outrage at the fact that a father would abandon his child in this manner.

(Of course, later we discover that Nai Yun Xue murdered his wife and was on the run in the US but the outrage that was poured out and expressed in the media regarding the fact of abandonment preceded this knowledge.)

Now turn to a second case, a woman abandoned her baby in an airport in New Zealand. Again, we do not yet know all the details, all we know is that the woman appeared distressed.

Unlike the man who abandoned the child in a public place, where others would likely notice her, this woman dumped her baby in a rubbish bin, where people are unlikely to see her, where in fact she very possible could have died.

What’s the response in the second case? Sympathy, empathy, understanding, discussion over women’s hormones, speculation into culture and her family situation. We are already being prepped to swallow that the woman is not really culpable for the action, we are told heart tugging stories about how they were reunited all peppered with terms like “its all very sad” – very different from the angry, absolute, terminology aimed at Nai Yun Xue.

What’s the difference? I cannot see any.

As far as I can tell in the first case the abandoner was a man and the second it was a woman and women have emotions that effect their judgement and culpability.

As a person who has researched the abortion issue extensively I have noted that what passes for sexism and misogyny is frequently embraced and even promoted by certain quarters to promote the ideals of those who claim to be favour of women. They will condemn statements like the above quote in popular theological writings of the past as patronising and insulting yet when there are benefits to women from being treated as full rational agents they seem quite willing to buy into this line of thought as long as it enables women to avoid criticism.

The problem is you cannot have it both ways. Accepting that women, like men, are rational moral agents means that not only do they have rights but that women can intelligibly be said to have duties. Possession of moral agency means that one’s actions can be subject to moral criticism, that one can be held culpable for ones misdeeds.

If women are moral agents then we can ask if they have duties to their offspring. We can ask if a woman, even if she is suffering emotional stress, is required to provide for the children she brought into existence. Asking these questions and holding women to the same standards as men, far from being degrading to women, actually respects them as moral agents.

But of course admitting this means that feminists are forced to face another question. It means that if a fetus is a human being then a woman may have a responsibility to not kill it. One cannot, as is common in moral literature, simply dismiss any criticisms of women as sexist nor can one appeal simply to the emotional plight of women who have abortions; one needs to actually ask serious moral questions.

This is a question that is too hard for some feminists to fathom; hence, they would rather buy into the very misogynist trends they condemn in traditional theology and treat women as emotional, irrational, beings who are incapable of moral choices rather than allow people to question the political stances they have advocated in the name of women.

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  • To support abortion you have to support misogyny and medieval attitudes to women’s ability to reason.

    Very clever.

  • Totaly agree with your point about the media aspect. When reading the article on the web I couldn’t understand the underlying feeling that what she had done was okay.
    And the offhand remark that the police are looking into the situation.
    Here was a woman who put a child into a rubbish bin!!!
    What is our world coming to????

  • Very well said Madeleine, that’s a really good post. And you are right, i heard both the stories on the news and i also heard a complete different take on the NZ case. The double-standard didn’t occur to me at the time.

    I guess to the pro-abortionists, the woman is entitled to not want the baby and their answer would be to knock it off before it’s born and becomes an inconvenience.

  • “Spot on and absolutely correct. The developed world is reeling under the duplicity and inability of feminist theory and feminist jurisprudence to deal with facts, objectivity, and mostly the ability to deal with real world problems. The developed world has become one giant doll house and tea party, unfortunately feminist theory is perpetuated and promoted by a few women who themselves are incapable of change, and their paradigms have become truly neanderthal like and reflect backwards thinking. It is going to take more than a few men to fix the ills it has spawned; it is going to take a few grown-up women to start acknowledging the shortcomings and speak out against the madness that the quasi-political feminist state has become.”

    Comment left by Ruth on Pro Life Blogs in response to this blog post, published there – (thought you may not have seen it)

  • And what is the law around child support in relation to the biological father? Isn’t the father still be required to pay for child support even though he rather want the pregnancy to be aborted?

  • Yep, that is pretty much what the law is Anon.
    .-= My last blog-post ..View Pacific Viewpoint TV Panel on Abortion & Parental Consent Here (Feat. Madeleine) =-.

  • Do you know the rationale behind the law?

    It seems not fair that women get state funded abortion on demand (at any age) while the men have to pay for child support regardless whether they want the baby or not. Apart from medical reason of course.

    Also, in Jeremy Kyle show, I have seen few men who had been conned into paying child support for many years before finally proven by DNA test that they are not the real fathers.

    Seems to me the law is unfair?

    Disclaimer: I don’t support abortion but your article just put a different light into the whole feminism and abortion.

    Great post!

  • You are highlighting one of the flawed paradox’s of the law. One rule for men another for women.
    .-= My last blog-post ..Madeleine on TV Tonight on Abortion & Parental Consent =-.